When does the authentic forgiveness arrive?

When you have let go your need to forgive, when you don't seek anything, just finds you, looking at your eyes, taking your hand and inviting you to dance. Forgiveness choses you and not the other way around. This is forgiveness, doubts dissipated because you know you have already forgiven, it has chosen you, at last, to taste the flavour of peace that is waiting for you in your heart. And when does the authentic forgiveness arrive? When you recognise that there wasn't anything to forgive, but something to learn, when an image of that person comes to your mind and a sigh of peace floods the space...